How to make a girl fall in love with you

#1 Don’t rush it. Take your time and play it cool. Never ever make your intentions too clear to the girl you like, and don’t be overeager to pour your feelings.
#2 Just the right amount of attention. Don’t drop all your commitments and give her all your attention all the time. That’s the easiest way to make a girl get bored of you really soon. An older woman may appreciate a man who’s dropping his priorities to make time for her, but when a girl is younger, she’d just lose your value or assume you’re a boring guy with all the time in the world to spare.
#3 Love yourself. This is very important. Do you truly love yourself? If you don’t think you’re awesome, how can you convince the world and all the beautiful girls in it that you’re an awesome guy? Fall in love with yourself and respect yourself, and the world will see you the same way too
#4 Let her see that you have a life. Keep yourself busy and involve yourself in different activities. Go on out there and enjoy the world, be it by trekking over the weekend, joining a few fun clubs or even doing something new with your friends. The more interesting you and your conversations are, the more awed by you she’ll be. [Read: How to talk to a girl and look really smooth doing it]
#5 Look great. Looks aren’t every girl’s biggest priority, but it’ll definitely be a perk if you can look really fit and healthy. Work out, look healthy, dress well, and smell great. You’ll make a much better first impression with every girl you meet.
#6 Believe in yourself. It’s not easy to believe in yourself when you think you’re a nobody. But just because you’re failing with women or unable to impress a girl, that’s no reason to call yourself a failure. Start believing in yourself and your capabilities, and enjoy the world.
#7 Don’t reveal your insecurity. Never reveal your jealous streak to the girl you like, especially if she’s getting a lot of attention from other guys who are trying to woo her at the same time. If she sees you as an insecure and jealous guy, she’ll just think you’re a creepy guy. A little bit of jealousy is cute, but only after she starts showing signs of liking you back.
#8 Don’t get clingy. Always give a girl her space, especially when you’re trying to woo her. Don’t keep bumping into her intentionally, avoid constantly staring at her each time she’s talking to some other guy, and stop calling her every night. Give her some space and give her the chance to miss you and realize how bored she is without having you around.
#9 The dependable guy. Help her around when she needs help. Be the guy she can depend on to get her out of trouble. Girls love it when a guy they’re with has a protective streak. If she feels safe with you, or believes you’re a guy who can handle any tough situation, you’re already in her good books.
#10 Flirt friendly and naughty. She’d have a harder time flirting with you if there are other guys around, so try to get some alone time with her when you get the opportunity. If you want to take it slow because you’re uncertain about her feelings for you, start by flirting as a friend. [Read: How to flirt with a girl and still behave just like a friend]
And once you’re past the friendly flirting, take it to the next level. The best way to flirt with a girl and make her shed her inhibitions is by flirting while texting or while talking over the phone.
Try to call her up late in the evenings or sometime at night when she’s in bed, lower your tone and speak softly, and before you know it, both of you would be flirting naughty in less than a week as long as you ask the right questions!
#11 Touch her. The power of touch is something most guys overlook while trying to make a girl fall in love with them. While talking to her, look for an excuse to touch her now and then. You could place your hand on her lower back while crossing the street, or touch her earlobe while admiring her earring, or even linger the hug for just a moment longer than necessary while saying goodbye.
#12 Don’t tell her you love her. This is a big mistake, at least if you say it before she shows signs of liking you. Always leave her wondering what’s on your mind even if you’re flirting with her. The curiosity will make her want you already. Go out on a date or two before you even think of telling her that you like her.
#13 Give her a gift. But make sure the gift is something small or insignificant that it doesn’t even feel like a gift. You could give her a pen, or a little showpiece or a little something you think she’ll like.
Every time she sees it, it would remind her of you, and yet, because you haven’t told her you like her already, it’ll make her wonder what your intentions are, and that’ll make her fall for you, slowly and steadily even before she realizes it herself!
#14 Don’t give her all the control. Meet her often and talk to her over the phone often. But every now and then, back off for a day or two and wait for her to call you or ask you out on a date. By making her take the effort now and then, you’d be forcing her to woo you and try to get your attention! And that would only make her fall harder for you.
#15 Make her miss you. This is a short phase you need to make her go through for a few days so she can realize just how much she likes you once you’re past the other steps. After both of you have become really close to each other, make her miss you now and then.
When you’re having an interesting conversation with her, tell her you have to go and hang up just when the conversation starts to get interesting. It’s the easiest way to help her realize how much she needs you in her life!
#16 Don’t always be available. If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, be there for her. But if you feel like she’s using you at any point of time, back off and tell her you’re busy. If you avoid backing off now and then when you’re busy or when you feel like she’s using you for something, you’ll end up becoming her doormat and her man friday. And remember this, a girl would never want to date a guy who behaves like her slave.
#17 But don’t be an asshole. Being unavailable now and then while wooing a girl is a great way to let her see that you’re not always available at her beck and call. But that doesn’t mean you have to behave like a total ass. Be charming and courteous around her, and never treat her badly or disrespectfully.
#18 Treat her like a girlfriend. Even before you ask her out or tell the girl that you love her, start behaving like a boyfriend. Be protective of her when you’re around, take care of her needs, plan dates together and try to catch up with each other often. And even before she realizes it, both of you would be dating. And she would be madly in love with you already!

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Why I love you(poem)

You give to me hope
And help me to cope
When life pulls me down
You bring me around
You teach me to care
And help me to share
You make me honest
With kindness the best
From you I learned love
With grace from above
It's for you I live
And I want to give
You are the reason
That fills each season
When I hear love I think of you
You are my world and best friend too
I love you because you are so kind, thoughtful and caring
I love you because you are so pleasant, lovely and sharing
You made me the man I am
Thank you

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Love mathematics(poem)

Before me is a sum
And the mathematics is on my shoulder
Minus, minus, plus, minus, minus, plus
is the formulae.
How do you win the heart of a virgin girl?
All you have to do is sing a love anthem
and recite the pledge
Thus it goes
‘if you find her romantic eye's skipping Your eyes, find a rose.
And when your rose find out she wears a heart
be sure there is a kind of man she likes'.
Maybe he's the kind who sings like a Nightingale
And call her name in every rhyme
Maybe he's the kind who smiles all time
and sweet in touch as a hive.
Maybe he's the kind who plays on shores
and have her not to every chores
Maybe he's the kind who's worthy of trust
and mindful of breasts and not.
So is the sum
If she is one, and you are one, find her not
If she is touch and you are rough, rush her not
Sure, if I can sing
To call her name in every rhyme
to smile with her
all the time as her kind
I am sure, I am that very man
THE END.
Note: This poem has been featured in Asian Signature and the book 'Love, A four letter word' by Raja William. Also in Emanation by Caplan.

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How to satisfy a woman in bed (15 steps)

#1 Go down on her. If all else fails, this usually succeeds. If you’re having a hard time getting your woman warmed up for the act, just go down on her and spend a gentle while down there. Almost always, this would help build the momentum for a great night ahead.
#2 Take time during foreplay. Most men hurry the foreplay bit without any consideration for the woman they’re with. Just because you’re up and ready doesn’t mean your woman is ready too. Take your time before penetration, and both of you will enjoy sex a lot more.
#3 Remember her erogenous zones. The typical erogenous zones in a woman are several, going from the back of her neck, her ears, and all the way to her knees and her toes. But each woman has a few special sweet spots that switch the button on instantly.
Kiss and nibble the entire length of her body and make sure you remember the zones that excite her more than the others. It’ll always come in handy the next time you want to arouse her faster.
#4 Don’t roll over and sleep. Falling asleep immediately after sex is a good sign because it means you’re secure enough in the relationship to just enjoy the relaxing after-sex sensation without having to worry about awkward moments.
But there’s a thin line between being secure and taking your woman for granted. Cuddle up after sex or indulge in pillow talk for a while. Or just fall asleep in each other’s arms.
#5 Your hygiene matters. Looking good for your woman makes a huge difference in the experience she has in bed. After all, a better looking partner is more of a turn on, isn’t it? But you need to remember that looking good doesn’t just mean a six pack abs.
Have a shower if you’re making love at the end of a long day, and keep all those hairy regions clean and trimmed. Smell great and feel great in bed, and your woman will definitely have a hard time keeping her hands off of you!
#6 Kiss and tell. Women have an active imagination and tend to rely on feelings more than visual appearances. If you want to turn your woman on and satisfy her in bed, arouse her mind by using the right words. Whisper sweet nothings in her ears or talk about her favorite fantasies. As long as you excite her mind with your seductive words, she’ll have an orgasm that’ll grip you hard down there.
#7 Don’t be selfish. If you want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed, this is as simple as it gets. Put your woman’s needs in bed before yours. Understand her preferences in bed, be it about the dim lighting or the right side of the bed, and make sure she’s feeling comfortable enough to enjoy having sex without any insecurities or awkwardness.
#8 Experiment all the time. The most boring of sexual relationships are the ones where the couples just do the missionary and don’t experiment at all, be it about positions or about dirty conversations. If you want to do more than just satisfy your woman in bed, try new things all the time. If you feel like a particular sex fantasy or a particular position is starting to get monotonous, freshen things up by trying something new.
#9 The right compliments. Women love appreciation in bed. It makes them shed their inhibitions more easily and gets them to experiment in bed sooner. When you’re naked in bed with your woman and find something fascinating about her, make sure you share the thought with your woman. She’ll feel better about herself and her new sexual confidence will definitely lead to better sex.
#10 Trigger zones and fantasies. Do you have any fantasies that make you hard as soon as you think about it? Well, girls have their own trigger fantasies too. For some girls, it’s a sexual fantasy while for others, it may be an erogenous zone.
Speak to your woman and find out what turns her on instantly. It’ll play a big part in  turning her on, and at times, it can help her orgasm sooner when you can’t hold on for too long.
#11 Play with her body.  Just because you’re inside of her doesn’t mean you should stop focusing on the rest of her. Play with her body and move your hands all over her. Massage her, stroke her and grab her all over. It’ll turn your girl on a lot more than just focusing on the missionary.
#12 Refresh sex all the time. The primary reason why sex starts to get boring is because it can get rather repetitive after a while. The typical foreplay-followed-by-missionary-position sex may be the most comfortable of all positions and it may feel intimate too, but every now and then, try something new just to bring a change into your bedroom.
Try role playing, dirty talking or a few sexy games in bed. Just when sex starts to get predictable, bring an interesting twist into it. By refreshing sex all the time, you can make each time you make love with your woman feel like a one night stand!
#13 Bite, lick and suck. Kissing is sensual and romantic. But don’t stop there. Let her feel your passion when you bite her and tongue her body. And here’s something to remember, a good love bite in the strategic regions will still feel just as passionate to a woman even after several years of going out with each other.
#14 Be outrageous. Sex gets sexier the more wild and outrageous it feels. If you want to satisfy your woman, learn to get risqué with your actions. Do something bold now and then, and sex will feel a lot more exciting. Have sex near an open window, use blindfolds, grope each other on a dark dance floor… The wilder your thoughts and actions, the sexier the sex will be.
#15 Her orgasm first. The last tip to satisfy your woman is only the most important one. The perfect orgasm is the high point of lovemaking. And if you orgasm before her, it’s almost certain that she’ll have to make do without an orgasm. Control your erection better and learn to hold on for longer, so you can satisfy your woman completely before you orgasm.

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15 Steps On How To Kiss A Girl

1) Never carry a bad breath Brush your teeth twice, gargle with a mouth wash, use mints or a strong gum – Do whatever it takes to avoid bad breath you kiss a girl. Bad breath is a total turn off and kissing can go from a beautiful fairy tale experience to a one that she would rather not remember. 2) Wash your hair Wash your hair or at least make sure that your hair feels nice to run fingers through and is free of dandruff or other stuff that can make her go eew. This kissing tip comes as a reminder to guys that your girl may like to run her fingers through your hair while you lock lips with her. Her kissing experience will be heightened if she enjoys ruffling your hair and putting her hands through them. 3) Remove/trim your nasal hair and clear your nose You are likely to annoy your girlfriend if she sees a bunch of your nasal hair greeting her as you lean in for a kiss. Use scissors, buy a nose hair trimmer, use tweezers - Do whatever it takes to leave the inside and outer edges of your nose hair free. Kissing also involves tilting of the head in many directions, leaving your nose area in full view of your girlfriend. Be sure to keep your nose clean and free of mucus or something that may embarrass you. 4) Smell nice: Use a manly fragrance Fragrance and smell will play a big role in charming your girl and giving her a kiss of a lifetime. Putting on a manly perfume, cologne or EDT will make her want to smell you over and over again. If perfume is not your domain or if you are unsure about your whacky choice in fragrances, stick to safe bets like Cool Water by Davidoff, Eternity by CK, Kenneth Cole Black by Kenneth Cole or Hugo by Hugo Boss. 5) Use a lip balm or moisturizer if your lips have become cracked Your cracked lips can hurt or irritate your girlfriend's lips. As a guy, don't go overboard with carrying a lip balm and worrying about it obsessively, but remember to give your lips a quick check before you kiss. If you think that your lips have been sucked dry of their moisture because of the weather, use a lip balm or a jelly to bring them back to their tender self. Avoid using fragrant lip balms because a girl generally does not expect her guy's lips to smell like strawberry, vanilla or peach. 6) Don't ask 'May I kiss you?' Asking your girl, whether you can kiss her or not may blow away the romantic moment. Weather it is the first time you are kissing a girl or a woman who you have been going out with since a long time, take charge and use your judgment to know if it is the right time to have a kissing make-out session. Is she leaning towards you? Is she facing away from you? Is she smiling or is she grumpy? Think about things like these and make your move. Don't wait for her to grant you permission to kiss. 7) Never approach a kiss with a closed mouth If you are in the habit of keeping your lips shut while approaching your girlfriend to kiss her, you could be putting her off. A closed mouth could be seen as an indication that all you are looking to do is give her a tiny peck with your lips. Before you learn how to kiss, remember to open your mouth as your lean into her face. Don't open too wide. If you can't figure out how much gap to leave between your lips, just open up as if you were about to say something. 8) Tilt your head and guide hers the opposite way Tilt your head sideways and if possible, guide her head to tilt it in to the opposite side with your hands. If you don't, you risk bumping noses and if that happens, immediately giggle it off and tilt your head again so you can kiss her immediately while the situation is still romantic and heated up. 9) Keep your eyes shut while kissing This is possibly one of the most commonly given, and abused kissing tip of all time. No matter how long or how short your kiss is going to be, remind yourself to close your eyes when you pucker up. It is a sign of enjoyment and by closing your eyes, your body language speaks that you

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6steps To Make A Girl Want You

1Warm her up. The main key to turning a girl on is taking your time. As fast as guys usually get turned on, women need about that much build up. These means you'll have to lay a little ground work and take the seduction part nice and slow. A huge part of warming her up, of course, is making her feel comfortable and safe. You're going to see a lot of steps below about respecting her, seeking consent, and otherwise doing things that you might not think of as "turn-ons". Don't neglect them, they're important. Sex is very mental for women and if you help them by making it so that they don't have to worry, then that's half the battle. 2Make her feel pretty. You know that warm, fuzzy feeling you get when you find out that someone thinks you're attractive? That's what you want to create for her. The fact that you think she's pretty is a significant turn-on. Here's how to communicate it without going overboard: Say "Hey, pretty lady" or "Hello, beautiful" when you greet her. It's simple and short, but direct. Pay her a compliment. Lower the volume and tone of your voice slightly, and say something like "You look amazing today" or "I love your eyes." 3Be the best version of yourself. Be the guy who's honestly kind. Who respects her and thinks she's more beautiful than the most picturesque sunset. Be the guy who works hard and makes it easier for her to work hard, by helping to shoulder her burdens. This will all mostly keep you from turning her off! 4Carry yourself with confidence. Everyone finds confidence sexy. Keep your shoulders straight and your chin high, and don't be afraid to look her in the eyes. You're communicating through your body language that you're strong, brave, and worthy of her attention. 5Clean up. Shower, put on deodorant, shave, brush your teeth and wear clean clothes. If you're feeling up to it, you can also do your hair and put on a light spray of cologne. Knowing that you're at your physical best will help you act confident and in-charge. 6Know how to treat a lady. Save the dirty jokes and discussions of bodily functions for your guy friends. When you're with the girl you like, be polite. Use good table manners, hold the door open for her, and say please and thank you. Good manners aren't necessarily attractive, but bad manners are definitely unattractive, so play it safe.

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Three Steps To Get Your EX Back

Breaking up is kind of crazy! Everyone has the same advice, just forget your ex and move on. But that’s not always easy, is it? Sometimes, you want to fight for the relationship. Sometimes you just know deep in your hrt that if only you could get another chance with your ex, things would work out. Sometimes, you just can’t close that chapter unless you get another try. If you think this is one of those times then you are in the right place. This guide is all about getting that one last chance to make things right. This guide will give you the knowledge that you need to get your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend back and keep them. If your relationship still doesn’t work, then you can rest assured that this relationship wasn’t meant to be. But if it works, you will be glad that you took the time to read these 3 steps. These 3 steps are based on simple psychological techniques that work extremely well after a breakup. It’s not some mind tricks and cheap gimmicks that you will use to trick your ex into getting back together. If you are planning to trick your ex or force them into being with you, you are just going to end up in another miserable breakup. This guide will teach you how to start a new relationship with your ex; a relationship that actually has a chance of being a long lasting healthy relationship. Not the same old one which ended in this breakup. The first step, of this guide is to understand the biggest mistakes that people make after a breakup and AVOID THEM. Doing these mistakes will not only drive your ex further away. They will also make you feel rejected and unworthy. ##1 Being Needy and Begging It’s one of the most common reactions to the breakup. If someone has decided to breakup with you, begging is not going to change their mind. Begging and pleading makes you look like a needy person. And that is unattractive, very unattractive. Do you think they want to breakup because they want you to beg them to take them back? Nobody wants to be with a needy person. And even if your begging worked, it’s going to lead to a relationship where you will end up being a doormat. ##2 The Doormat Syndrome It comes right after begging and pleading; accepting everything while throwing your self-worth away in the trashcan (aka Doormat Syndrome). You agree everything your ex wants without even considering your happiness. Don’t Let Them Walk All Over You You put your self-worth, your happiness, your dreams and your entire life on the back burner just so you could be with your ex. Sometimes, people do it just to hold on to the possibility of being with their ex in the future. It’s a direct consequence of begging and pleading. It makes your ex think “Well, if you are that desperate to be with me, then you must accept everything that I want.” In most cases, if you agree to be a doormat, your ex will keep you around to satisfy their emotional or sexual needs, but they won’t commit to you. If they do commit to you, it will probably be an unhappy, smothering or even abusive relationship. And you know what happens to a relationship where one person is a doormat? They end. Sooner or later they all end. If you want to get your ex back and give it a real chance, please do not become doormat. ##3 The Phone Catastrophe Aspirin will not make last night’s phone calls go away. There are so many ways to contact a person these days, it’s almost ridiculous. You can call them, text them, facebook them, tweet them, and so much other stuff. And this comfortable technology leads to one of the worst mistakes people make after a breakup, texting their ex all the time (sometimes hundreds to thousands of texts a day).

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