#2 Just the right amount of attention. Don’t drop all your commitments and give her all your attention all the time. That’s the easiest way to make a girl get bored of you really soon. An older woman may appreciate a man who’s dropping his priorities to make time for her, but when a girl is younger, she’d just lose your value or assume you’re a boring guy with all the time in the world to spare.
#3 Love yourself. This is very important. Do you truly love yourself? If you don’t think you’re awesome, how can you convince the world and all the beautiful girls in it that you’re an awesome guy? Fall in love with yourself and respect yourself, and the world will see you the same way too
#4 Let her see that you have a life. Keep yourself busy and involve yourself in different activities. Go on out there and enjoy the world, be it by trekking over the weekend, joining a few fun clubs or even doing something new with your friends. The more interesting you and your conversations are, the more awed by you she’ll be. [Read: How to talk to a girl and look really smooth doing it]
#5 Look great. Looks aren’t every girl’s biggest priority, but it’ll definitely be a perk if you can look really fit and healthy. Work out, look healthy, dress well, and smell great. You’ll make a much better first impression with every girl you meet.
#6 Believe in yourself. It’s not easy to believe in yourself when you think you’re a nobody. But just because you’re failing with women or unable to impress a girl, that’s no reason to call yourself a failure. Start believing in yourself and your capabilities, and enjoy the world.
#7 Don’t reveal your insecurity. Never reveal your jealous streak to the girl you like, especially if she’s getting a lot of attention from other guys who are trying to woo her at the same time. If she sees you as an insecure and jealous guy, she’ll just think you’re a creepy guy. A little bit of jealousy is cute, but only after she starts showing signs of liking you back.
#8 Don’t get clingy. Always give a girl her space, especially when you’re trying to woo her. Don’t keep bumping into her intentionally, avoid constantly staring at her each time she’s talking to some other guy, and stop calling her every night. Give her some space and give her the chance to miss you and realize how bored she is without having you around.
#9 The dependable guy. Help her around when she needs help. Be the guy she can depend on to get her out of trouble. Girls love it when a guy they’re with has a protective streak. If she feels safe with you, or believes you’re a guy who can handle any tough situation, you’re already in her good books.
#10 Flirt friendly and naughty. She’d have a harder time flirting with you if there are other guys around, so try to get some alone time with her when you get the opportunity. If you want to take it slow because you’re uncertain about her feelings for you, start by flirting as a friend. [Read: How to flirt with a girl and still behave just like a friend]
And once you’re past the friendly flirting, take it to the next level. The best way to flirt with a girl and make her shed her inhibitions is by flirting while texting or while talking over the phone.
Try to call her up late in the evenings or sometime at night when she’s in bed, lower your tone and speak softly, and before you know it, both of you would be flirting naughty in less than a week as long as you ask the right questions!
#11 Touch her. The power of touch is something most guys overlook while trying to make a girl fall in love with them. While talking to her, look for an excuse to touch her now and then. You could place your hand on her lower back while crossing the street, or touch her earlobe while admiring her earring, or even linger the hug for just a moment longer than necessary while saying goodbye.
#12 Don’t tell her you love her. This is a big mistake, at least if you say it before she shows signs of liking you. Always leave her wondering what’s on your mind even if you’re flirting with her. The curiosity will make her want you already. Go out on a date or two before you even think of telling her that you like her.
#13 Give her a gift. But make sure the gift is something small or insignificant that it doesn’t even feel like a gift. You could give her a pen, or a little showpiece or a little something you think she’ll like.
Every time she sees it, it would remind her of you, and yet, because you haven’t told her you like her already, it’ll make her wonder what your intentions are, and that’ll make her fall for you, slowly and steadily even before she realizes it herself!
#14 Don’t give her all the control. Meet her often and talk to her over the phone often. But every now and then, back off for a day or two and wait for her to call you or ask you out on a date. By making her take the effort now and then, you’d be forcing her to woo you and try to get your attention! And that would only make her fall harder for you.
#15 Make her miss you. This is a short phase you need to make her go through for a few days so she can realize just how much she likes you once you’re past the other steps. After both of you have become really close to each other, make her miss you now and then.
When you’re having an interesting conversation with her, tell her you have to go and hang up just when the conversation starts to get interesting. It’s the easiest way to help her realize how much she needs you in her life!
#16 Don’t always be available. If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, be there for her. But if you feel like she’s using you at any point of time, back off and tell her you’re busy. If you avoid backing off now and then when you’re busy or when you feel like she’s using you for something, you’ll end up becoming her doormat and her man friday. And remember this, a girl would never want to date a guy who behaves like her slave.
#17 But don’t be an asshole. Being unavailable now and then while wooing a girl is a great way to let her see that you’re not always available at her beck and call. But that doesn’t mean you have to behave like a total ass. Be charming and courteous around her, and never treat her badly or disrespectfully.
#18 Treat her like a girlfriend. Even before you ask her out or tell the girl that you love her, start behaving like a boyfriend. Be protective of her when you’re around, take care of her needs, plan dates together and try to catch up with each other often. And even before she realizes it, both of you would be dating. And she would be madly in love with you already!