How to make a girl fall in love with you

#1 Don’t rush it. Take your time and play it cool. Never ever make your intentions too clear to the girl you like, and don’t be overeager to pour your feelings.
#2 Just the right amount of attention. Don’t drop all your commitments and give her all your attention all the time. That’s the easiest way to make a girl get bored of you really soon. An older woman may appreciate a man who’s dropping his priorities to make time for her, but when a girl is younger, she’d just lose your value or assume you’re a boring guy with all the time in the world to spare.
#3 Love yourself. This is very important. Do you truly love yourself? If you don’t think you’re awesome, how can you convince the world and all the beautiful girls in it that you’re an awesome guy? Fall in love with yourself and respect yourself, and the world will see you the same way too
#4 Let her see that you have a life. Keep yourself busy and involve yourself in different activities. Go on out there and enjoy the world, be it by trekking over the weekend, joining a few fun clubs or even doing something new with your friends. The more interesting you and your conversations are, the more awed by you she’ll be. [Read: How to talk to a girl and look really smooth doing it]
#5 Look great. Looks aren’t every girl’s biggest priority, but it’ll definitely be a perk if you can look really fit and healthy. Work out, look healthy, dress well, and smell great. You’ll make a much better first impression with every girl you meet.
#6 Believe in yourself. It’s not easy to believe in yourself when you think you’re a nobody. But just because you’re failing with women or unable to impress a girl, that’s no reason to call yourself a failure. Start believing in yourself and your capabilities, and enjoy the world.
#7 Don’t reveal your insecurity. Never reveal your jealous streak to the girl you like, especially if she’s getting a lot of attention from other guys who are trying to woo her at the same time. If she sees you as an insecure and jealous guy, she’ll just think you’re a creepy guy. A little bit of jealousy is cute, but only after she starts showing signs of liking you back.
#8 Don’t get clingy. Always give a girl her space, especially when you’re trying to woo her. Don’t keep bumping into her intentionally, avoid constantly staring at her each time she’s talking to some other guy, and stop calling her every night. Give her some space and give her the chance to miss you and realize how bored she is without having you around.
#9 The dependable guy. Help her around when she needs help. Be the guy she can depend on to get her out of trouble. Girls love it when a guy they’re with has a protective streak. If she feels safe with you, or believes you’re a guy who can handle any tough situation, you’re already in her good books.
#10 Flirt friendly and naughty. She’d have a harder time flirting with you if there are other guys around, so try to get some alone time with her when you get the opportunity. If you want to take it slow because you’re uncertain about her feelings for you, start by flirting as a friend. [Read: How to flirt with a girl and still behave just like a friend]
And once you’re past the friendly flirting, take it to the next level. The best way to flirt with a girl and make her shed her inhibitions is by flirting while texting or while talking over the phone.
Try to call her up late in the evenings or sometime at night when she’s in bed, lower your tone and speak softly, and before you know it, both of you would be flirting naughty in less than a week as long as you ask the right questions!
#11 Touch her. The power of touch is something most guys overlook while trying to make a girl fall in love with them. While talking to her, look for an excuse to touch her now and then. You could place your hand on her lower back while crossing the street, or touch her earlobe while admiring her earring, or even linger the hug for just a moment longer than necessary while saying goodbye.
#12 Don’t tell her you love her. This is a big mistake, at least if you say it before she shows signs of liking you. Always leave her wondering what’s on your mind even if you’re flirting with her. The curiosity will make her want you already. Go out on a date or two before you even think of telling her that you like her.
#13 Give her a gift. But make sure the gift is something small or insignificant that it doesn’t even feel like a gift. You could give her a pen, or a little showpiece or a little something you think she’ll like.
Every time she sees it, it would remind her of you, and yet, because you haven’t told her you like her already, it’ll make her wonder what your intentions are, and that’ll make her fall for you, slowly and steadily even before she realizes it herself!
#14 Don’t give her all the control. Meet her often and talk to her over the phone often. But every now and then, back off for a day or two and wait for her to call you or ask you out on a date. By making her take the effort now and then, you’d be forcing her to woo you and try to get your attention! And that would only make her fall harder for you.
#15 Make her miss you. This is a short phase you need to make her go through for a few days so she can realize just how much she likes you once you’re past the other steps. After both of you have become really close to each other, make her miss you now and then.
When you’re having an interesting conversation with her, tell her you have to go and hang up just when the conversation starts to get interesting. It’s the easiest way to help her realize how much she needs you in her life!
#16 Don’t always be available. If you want to make a girl fall in love with you, be there for her. But if you feel like she’s using you at any point of time, back off and tell her you’re busy. If you avoid backing off now and then when you’re busy or when you feel like she’s using you for something, you’ll end up becoming her doormat and her man friday. And remember this, a girl would never want to date a guy who behaves like her slave.
#17 But don’t be an asshole. Being unavailable now and then while wooing a girl is a great way to let her see that you’re not always available at her beck and call. But that doesn’t mean you have to behave like a total ass. Be charming and courteous around her, and never treat her badly or disrespectfully.
#18 Treat her like a girlfriend. Even before you ask her out or tell the girl that you love her, start behaving like a boyfriend. Be protective of her when you’re around, take care of her needs, plan dates together and try to catch up with each other often. And even before she realizes it, both of you would be dating. And she would be madly in love with you already!

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Why I love you(poem)

You give to me hope
And help me to cope
When life pulls me down
You bring me around
You teach me to care
And help me to share
You make me honest
With kindness the best
From you I learned love
With grace from above
It's for you I live
And I want to give
You are the reason
That fills each season
When I hear love I think of you
You are my world and best friend too
I love you because you are so kind, thoughtful and caring
I love you because you are so pleasant, lovely and sharing
You made me the man I am
Thank you

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Love mathematics(poem)

Before me is a sum
And the mathematics is on my shoulder
Minus, minus, plus, minus, minus, plus
is the formulae.
How do you win the heart of a virgin girl?
All you have to do is sing a love anthem
and recite the pledge
Thus it goes
‘if you find her romantic eye's skipping Your eyes, find a rose.
And when your rose find out she wears a heart
be sure there is a kind of man she likes'.
Maybe he's the kind who sings like a Nightingale
And call her name in every rhyme
Maybe he's the kind who smiles all time
and sweet in touch as a hive.
Maybe he's the kind who plays on shores
and have her not to every chores
Maybe he's the kind who's worthy of trust
and mindful of breasts and not.
So is the sum
If she is one, and you are one, find her not
If she is touch and you are rough, rush her not
Sure, if I can sing
To call her name in every rhyme
to smile with her
all the time as her kind
I am sure, I am that very man
THE END.
Note: This poem has been featured in Asian Signature and the book 'Love, A four letter word' by Raja William. Also in Emanation by Caplan.

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How to satisfy a woman in bed (15 steps)

#1 Go down on her. If all else fails, this usually succeeds. If you’re having a hard time getting your woman warmed up for the act, just go down on her and spend a gentle while down there. Almost always, this would help build the momentum for a great night ahead.
#2 Take time during foreplay. Most men hurry the foreplay bit without any consideration for the woman they’re with. Just because you’re up and ready doesn’t mean your woman is ready too. Take your time before penetration, and both of you will enjoy sex a lot more.
#3 Remember her erogenous zones. The typical erogenous zones in a woman are several, going from the back of her neck, her ears, and all the way to her knees and her toes. But each woman has a few special sweet spots that switch the button on instantly.
Kiss and nibble the entire length of her body and make sure you remember the zones that excite her more than the others. It’ll always come in handy the next time you want to arouse her faster.
#4 Don’t roll over and sleep. Falling asleep immediately after sex is a good sign because it means you’re secure enough in the relationship to just enjoy the relaxing after-sex sensation without having to worry about awkward moments.
But there’s a thin line between being secure and taking your woman for granted. Cuddle up after sex or indulge in pillow talk for a while. Or just fall asleep in each other’s arms.
#5 Your hygiene matters. Looking good for your woman makes a huge difference in the experience she has in bed. After all, a better looking partner is more of a turn on, isn’t it? But you need to remember that looking good doesn’t just mean a six pack abs.
Have a shower if you’re making love at the end of a long day, and keep all those hairy regions clean and trimmed. Smell great and feel great in bed, and your woman will definitely have a hard time keeping her hands off of you!
#6 Kiss and tell. Women have an active imagination and tend to rely on feelings more than visual appearances. If you want to turn your woman on and satisfy her in bed, arouse her mind by using the right words. Whisper sweet nothings in her ears or talk about her favorite fantasies. As long as you excite her mind with your seductive words, she’ll have an orgasm that’ll grip you hard down there.
#7 Don’t be selfish. If you want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed, this is as simple as it gets. Put your woman’s needs in bed before yours. Understand her preferences in bed, be it about the dim lighting or the right side of the bed, and make sure she’s feeling comfortable enough to enjoy having sex without any insecurities or awkwardness.
#8 Experiment all the time. The most boring of sexual relationships are the ones where the couples just do the missionary and don’t experiment at all, be it about positions or about dirty conversations. If you want to do more than just satisfy your woman in bed, try new things all the time. If you feel like a particular sex fantasy or a particular position is starting to get monotonous, freshen things up by trying something new.
#9 The right compliments. Women love appreciation in bed. It makes them shed their inhibitions more easily and gets them to experiment in bed sooner. When you’re naked in bed with your woman and find something fascinating about her, make sure you share the thought with your woman. She’ll feel better about herself and her new sexual confidence will definitely lead to better sex.
#10 Trigger zones and fantasies. Do you have any fantasies that make you hard as soon as you think about it? Well, girls have their own trigger fantasies too. For some girls, it’s a sexual fantasy while for others, it may be an erogenous zone.
Speak to your woman and find out what turns her on instantly. It’ll play a big part in  turning her on, and at times, it can help her orgasm sooner when you can’t hold on for too long.
#11 Play with her body.  Just because you’re inside of her doesn’t mean you should stop focusing on the rest of her. Play with her body and move your hands all over her. Massage her, stroke her and grab her all over. It’ll turn your girl on a lot more than just focusing on the missionary.
#12 Refresh sex all the time. The primary reason why sex starts to get boring is because it can get rather repetitive after a while. The typical foreplay-followed-by-missionary-position sex may be the most comfortable of all positions and it may feel intimate too, but every now and then, try something new just to bring a change into your bedroom.
Try role playing, dirty talking or a few sexy games in bed. Just when sex starts to get predictable, bring an interesting twist into it. By refreshing sex all the time, you can make each time you make love with your woman feel like a one night stand!
#13 Bite, lick and suck. Kissing is sensual and romantic. But don’t stop there. Let her feel your passion when you bite her and tongue her body. And here’s something to remember, a good love bite in the strategic regions will still feel just as passionate to a woman even after several years of going out with each other.
#14 Be outrageous. Sex gets sexier the more wild and outrageous it feels. If you want to satisfy your woman, learn to get risqué with your actions. Do something bold now and then, and sex will feel a lot more exciting. Have sex near an open window, use blindfolds, grope each other on a dark dance floor… The wilder your thoughts and actions, the sexier the sex will be.
#15 Her orgasm first. The last tip to satisfy your woman is only the most important one. The perfect orgasm is the high point of lovemaking. And if you orgasm before her, it’s almost certain that she’ll have to make do without an orgasm. Control your erection better and learn to hold on for longer, so you can satisfy your woman completely before you orgasm.

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Good morning text

Good Morning, Beautiful!

Being in love with you makes every morning worth getting up for... Good Morning, Sweetheart!

Feeling sad? Tears in ur eyes? Thing going wrong? Don't forget... I am always with u... Good Morning Dear!

Good morning love. You are like a blessing from the heavens above.

Alert! The hottest man in the world has just awoken!

Good Morning, my Love!

You light  up my life!

A morning text does not simply mean, "Good morning." Rather, it comes with the silent loving message, "I think of you when I wake up."

From morning's first light to evening's last star, always remember how special you are!

Good Morning! I really do love you!

I hope your morning is as bright as your smile.

Welcome to the new morning with smile on ur face LOVE in ur “heart”Good Thoughts in ur “mind” Wish u the Brightest Morning...

Good Morning, have a nice day!

Were you a coffee bean in your past life? Must be, because I can't start my day without you. Good morning my Love!

Just the thought of you brightens up my morning.

Good Morning to you... love xoxo

Good Morning, Have a Beautiful Day!

It doesn't matter what day of the week it is. As long as we are together, it will always be a beautiful day.

I went to sleep last night with a smile because I knew I'd be dreaming of you... but I woke up this morning with a smile because you weren't a dream. Good Morning, baby!

Good Morning, Honey! I love you!

May you begin this day with a smile on your face,and with happiness for your soul to embrace. Good Morning my love.

Good Morning, Sunshine!

Have a Beary Good Morning!

Good Morning My Sweet Love!

Sending a warm wish your way, may it brighten your day like the morning rays. Very good morning!

Only you in my heart, good morning :)

I love the sunrise because each morning, it's a reminder that I have another day to spend with the man of my dreams. Good morning.

Good Morning, I miss you! I am waiting for you!

Wake up sweetheart! Good morning, I love you!

You are my sweetest dream come true. Good Morning.

A good morning smile 4 u :)

May you start this new day with your beautiful smile and happiness.

If u cannot get someone off ur mind, maybe he/she is supposed to be there. Remember, the mind can recognize what the heart is trying to deny. Good Morning!

Eyes are not meant for tears and heart is not meant for fear, never get upset but always cheer bcoz u r the 1 who can make people smile for years. Good Morning!

Life is a rope that swings us through hope. Always believe that today is better than yesterday & tomorrow will be much better than today... good morning babe.

Family, friends, health & time don't come with a price tag! It's only when we lose them that we realize their true value. Good Morning!

With petals of roses, pal full of holly water, light full of sun, fragrance of flower and grass with dew. I wish u a very special Good Morning!

Good morning dear. I hope u have a wonderful day.

All mornings r like paintings:- u need a little inspiration to get going, a little smile to brighten up & an SMS from someone who cares to color ur day... (*) Good Morning (*)

God has added one more day in your life not necessarily bcoz you need it but because someone else might need u. Good Morning!

Live it! Love it! The day is yours! Gud Mrng!!

I wish a good morning to the person whose kisses are the reason for my happiness and whose hugs make my life priceless.

Good morning hottie!

Every day in my life is perfect because it starts by wishing you a good morning. Have an amazing day baby.

Wishing you a good morning and a nice day!

S"imple"
M"ind touching"
I"nteractive"
E"ffect which wins the hearts...
Yes... It's your sweet smile so keep smiling always, good morning!

Look outside the window, sun rising for u, flowers smiling for u, birds singing 4 u, b'coz last night I told them to wish you u good morning!

Lovely wishes 2 a lovely person on a lovely day.

There are many stars but the Moon is U,
There r many frien

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What makes men respect women

Respect means "to consider worthy of high or special regard." Most men don't love what they don't respect. A man will have sex with a woman, but that doesn't mean he loves her. It just means she was available. 

Too many women aren't finding love because they don't make men earn or respect them.  Here's how to make a man respect you:

Respect yourself.  This is in no way, shape or form the same thing as "loving yourself." Respecting yourself means setting high standards for yourself and making choices that don't disrespect the life you want or who you want to be. For example, you earn no respect by having sex on the first date or shacking up.
Act feminine. Men respect women who are feminine. That doesn't mean you can't be intelligent, hardworking or even a jock. It just means that you need to allow men to treat you like a lady (e.g. open the door for you, pull out your chair, walk on the outside of the street, pay for things, etc.). Men like to pursue and be the man in a relationship. There's a polarity of masculine and feminine, and the feminine brings the masculine out of men.
Don't be a piece of meat. Believe it or not, as much as men want to get you on your back, you lose respect points when you give in too soon. Men need time to fall in love with you.
Be honest and have integrity. A man can't respect you if he can't trust you. Don't lie or portray yourself in a way that gives the wrong impression.
Don't underestimate the power of your words. Men are contemptuous when they feel criticized or disrespected, and therefore, will not give respect back. Always come from a place of kindness and love, and you'll get the same in return.

The bottom line is, if you want a man (not a boy or bum) to love you, he needs to respect you, and that's earned by having a set of values and living by them.

By Dr Laura
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Bible verses about love

Jeremiah 29:13

And ye shall seek me and shall find me when ye shall search for me with all your heart

John 3:16

"For god so loved the world that he gave his one and only son for that who ever believes in him shall not parish but have eternal life in heaven."

2 Timothy 1:7

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

James 4:7-8

"Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you."

Romans 3:23

"For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."

Revelation 2:10

"Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life."

Isaiah 41:10

"Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand."

Luke 6:35

"But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil."
John 3:5

"Verily verily, I say unto you, expect a man be born of water and spirit that he can not enter the kingdom of God."

Psalms 139

"You have searched me, Lord, and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways..."

Psalms 37:4

"...Delight yourself in the LORD and he shall give you the desires of your heart..."

Philippians 4:13

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

John 3:16

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, so that whoever believes in him shall not parish but have everlasting life with Jesus."

Proverbs 10:12

"Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses."

Philippians 1:3

"I thank my God, upon every remembrance of you.."

GOD is love..so my friends also learn to love

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Inspirational quotes

All men who have achieved great things
have been great dreamers.

- Orison Swett Marden

The only place where dreams are impossible
is in your own mind.

- Emalie -

You are never given a wish
without being given the power to make it come true.

- From the book "Bridge Across Forever" -
(by Richard Bach)

Don't let today's disappointments
cast a shadow on tomorrow's dreams.

- Author Unknown

It is sometimes hard to cross that bridge,
try something new, or make that change.
But once you do, you will realize
that things are usually never as bad as we imagine.

- Michelle C. Ustaszeski -

Your talent is God's gift to you.
What you do with it is your gift back to God.

- Leo Buscaglia -

The glow of love may blaze again,
But first wake up thy heart so slain,
Then beating drums could never hide,
A joyous heart so opened wide!

Shine forth your light on flowers small,
That they may scale the highest wall,
And blossom yet to show the way,
To hidden hearts long gone astray.

Unfurled, unbidden, may it grow,
For what life this unless to show?
How love can swell a weary chest,
And spur on man to be his best!

You are the earth, the moon, the sun,
Take flight, my friend, now start to run,
Towards the greatness that you are,
Then upwards to the brightest star.

- Sharron Cranston -

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First kiss (poem)

First Love's First Kiss

There is nothing better
Than an autumn breeze
To liven that brisk cold air that
Lingers in the late afternoon
Of a beautiful day;

A day in which I'll never forget
When you led me to the woods
Beyond the giant pond;
The trees ahead opening up
To make for us a clearing to enter.

And with the warm sun at our backs
We accepted the invitation
And walked through this door of life,
The birds and squirrels
Making way for us.

And in those woods we crept
Through crunching leaves that timidly
Broke the silence.
I found a little space
Where leaves covered the ground
And moss grew quietly.

There we sat
And spoke of things that mattered--
Not just words to fill the silence.
Ordinarily I hated silence
But this day I treasured it.

After a few awkward minutes of hearing
Only the wind through the trees,
You took my hand--
And I smiled as your fingers
Danced with mine.

And then you kissed me
And I took it willingly,
As my heart raced with joy.
I gazed into your welcoming eyes,
Never wanting to look away.

And there we kissed, as the
Breeze blew and the sun disappeared.
Love knows no boundaries
And this counts especially for time.
The hours passed without care,
And so did my worries for all else.

I displayed the delicate bouquet of
Leaves that I intertwined with
Great care, as a tribute to our bond
That made me feel whole.

I touched your face and was pleased with its softness.
You asked me what I was thinking about
And I was shy and hesitant in my response.
I finally surrendered honestly to my pride, replying
With "how I could stay here forever."
You smiled, and my heart melted with ease.

We sat there, embraced in warmth until
Darkness emerged, reminding us that
Time passes even while standing still.
And so we rose to leave this world,
Which I insisted must be a dream.
I wished to bottle this magic
So as to hold and cherish it forever.

We stood finally, attempting to depart
From this wooded splendor.
We made our way, hand in hand, out from
Beneath the trees that so kindly
Sheltered our innocence
And back into the busy world of reality
That inevitably awaited our return.

Now conscious of our surroundings:
A society too often blind of any other forms of love--
I desperately stole one last kiss.
My heart continued to beam with this
New energy... this new light...
That failed not to glow.

And I thought how, at this very moment,
My life as I knew it could perish
And crumble beneath my feet...
And I will have died
Fulfilled and complete.

- Ashley Michel -

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Good Night text messages

I wish moon always be full & bright and U always be cool & right. Whenever U go to switch off the light, Remeber that I'm wishing U ...Good Night!

Good night, nice dreams, love and peace!

No matter how far you are... you are always in my thoughts! Good night.

Everyday I spend with you is the new best day of my life. Can't wait for the morning. Good night baby.

Goodnight my love, pleasant dreams, sleep tight my love, may tomorrow be sunny and bright and bring you closer to me.

Love is the simpler feelings, I dream every night abut you I want to capture your heart... I love you.

Sun is upset and moon is happy, bcoz sun is missing u, and the moon is gonna be with u for the rest of the night, have a wonderful night.

G'nite sweet dreams.

A day is going to end again. It is nice to have someone like U making everyday seems so great. Thank U my love and may all the angels guard you this night!

Every day I love you more than yesterday. Sweet dreams.

Good night! I shall miss you til morning.

I don't dream about you, because I can never fall asleep thinking about you.

Good night. Sleep tight. I wish you lovely dreams with all my might.

GUD NIGHT!

Goodnight my love, goodnight my everything!

Goodnight I love you see you in the morning!

I'll try to sleep so that I can keep you in my dreams.

stars light stars bright, u r the only star I see 2nite, I wish I might be there guarding ur dreams tonight.

Good night and sweet dreams.

I think of you as soon as I wake up and then again before I fall asleep. You see, you’re never out of my thoughts. Have a Good Night!

I didn't want to kiss you goodbye, I wanted to kiss you goodnight.

Touch your heart, close ur eyes. Make a wish, say goodnight. Sky so wide, stars so bright, off the lights, sleep so tight.

I long for you each night if i give u my heart will u promise not 2 break it I want u to want me I need u to love me I dream so I can see u

Tonight, I'll fall asleep with you in my heart!

During the day I keep myself busy and sometimes time passes. But at night, I really miss you.

Good night! Sweet dreams and a nice sunrise!!

Between a million yesterdays and a million tomorrows, there’s only one today.
And I would never let it pass without telling you – I’m thinking of you. Have a good night.

I love my kitty bear, goodnight!

Kiss me goodnight and love me forever!

May angel wishes watch over your sleep tonight.

Goodnight hun:* I love you <3

Good night... sleep tight... don't let the bed bugs bite!

Goodnight luv

I’d walk a thousand miles to be with you tonight. Missing you – g’night.

Its big,
It’s warm,                                                  
It’s fuzzy.
Before you get ideas – it’s a big g’night HUG from me to you!

When the night breeze blows my hair, I imagine they’re your kisses
I can stand missing you this much.

God sprinkles tiny but wonderful seeds of blessings on earth each day...and I just caught one that's so nice and true...it's YOU ! Love you and good night

I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes! So I’ll think about you as I turn in for the night. Good Night!

One day I wish my dream would come true
And I’d wake up next to you. Till then Good Night!

Every night I love coming back home. Because home is being in your arms. Good night my love!

Just a line...2 keep in touch...
coz u r on my mind so very much...
& even though, I've nothing 2 say...
I’ll know...I thought of u 2day...Good night!

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